I am sorry I totally understand your situation. At this point I regret to say that Haswell refresh is compatible with 9 series express chipset only and Intel® is not developing 9 series boards.
The processor you have seems not to be compatible with the board based on the compatibility chart at this link:
http://processormatch.intel.com/MotherBoards/CompatibleBoards?componentName=i5-4460
Kevin m